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Do you take on challenges and look at them as chances to learn something new?

I never do that

I always do that

Taking on challenges means you're cool with facing tough stuff and trying to get through it.

Do you keep an open mind and check out new ideas and different perspectives?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping an open mind means you're cool with checking out new ideas and different points of view, and you're up for change.

Do you switch up how you do things or your strategies when things change or something unexpected pops up?

I never do that

I always do that

Switching up how you do things means you can change your methods or game plan to fit whatever's going on.

Do you take advantage of good opportunities when they pop up?

I never do that

I always do that

Making the most of opportunities is all about jumping on good chances when they come your way.

Do you keep up with changes?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping up with changes means you gotta stay in the loop and pay attention to what's going on so you can roll with it.

Do you know why you do what you do when you have to stick it out?

I never do that

I always do that

Figuring out your why is all about finding what really motivates you.

Are you good at rolling with changes, even when things get tough out of nowhere?

I never do that

I always do that

Rolling with change means you can handle new stuff as it comes up.

Do you keep a positive outlook about the future, even when things get tough?

I never do that

I always do that

Being optimistic about the future means staying hopeful about what's coming up.

Do you take charge of your thoughts to help you bounce back?

I never do that

I always do that

Taking charge of your thoughts means you’re in control of your mindset and you’re picking thoughts that lift you up.

Do you keep your cool and stay chill when things get tough?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping your cool means you don't lose it when you're stressed out.

Do you figure out what the problem is before you try to fix it?

I never do that

I always do that

Figuring out the problem means you actually say what the issue is, super clearly.

Do you actually take the time to figure out problems?

I never do that

I always do that

Figuring out a problem means you really look into it and try to understand what's going on.

Do you try out different ways to solve problems?

I never do that

I always do that

Coming up with possible solutions means thinking of different ways to fix a problem.

Do you look at a bunch of different options when you're trying to solve problems?

I never do that

I always do that

Checking out the options means looking at different choices so you can make a smart decision.

Do you actually put solutions into action to fix problems?

I never do that

I always do that

Putting a solution into action means doing what needs to be done to actually make the idea happen.

Do you check how things turned out when you’re solving problems?

I never do that

I always do that

Checking results is all about seeing how things turned out after you put your solutions in place.

Do you figure out clear goals for yourself?

I never do that

I always do that

Figuring out a goal is all about knowing what you wanna get done.

Do you get the info you need before you make decisions?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting info means collecting the stuff you need to help you make decisions.

Do you look at things from different angles when you make decisions?

I never do that

I always do that

Looking at things from different angles means you think about what other people might see or believe, not just your own point of view.

Do you think through different options when you make decisions?

I never do that

I always do that

Thinking through your options means looking at different choices and what could happen with each one.

Do you think about what could happen before you make choices?

I never do that

I always do that

Thinking about what could happen means you look at what might go down before you make a decision.

Do you stick with your decisions and actually follow through on what you chose to do?

I never do that

I always do that

Being committed to a decision means you're set on sticking with what you picked and seeing it through.

Do you take a look and think things through before making up your mind?

I never do that

I always do that

Checking out what's going on means you take a good look at what's happening without jumping to conclusions or making snap judgments.

Do you take a good look at different sources of info and think about them?

I never do that

I always do that

Checking out input means looking at info to see how useful it is.

Do you ever question your own assumptions?

I never do that

I always do that

Questioning assumptions is all about challenging the beliefs you just take for granted, to see if they actually make sense.

Do you look at things from different angles?

I never do that

I always do that

Looking at things from different angles means you check out other people's points of view to really get the full picture.

Do you come up with your own opinions without just going along with what other people think?

I never do that

I always do that

Thinking for yourself means you can come up with your own opinions and ideas, not just go along with what everyone else thinks.

Do you figure things out using logic?

I never do that

I always do that

Figuring things out using evidence means you use real facts and common sense to make smart decisions.

Do you set goals that matter and fit what you want in life?

I never do that

I always do that

Setting goals that matter means going after stuff that's actually worth your time.

Do you make action plans to reach your goals?

I never do that

I always do that

Making action plans is all about coming up with a step-by-step plan to hit your goals.

Do you keep track of how you're doing with your goals?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping tabs on progress is all about checking in on how things are going with your goals so you can stay on track and tweak things if you need to.

Do you go with the flow when you're working toward your goals?

I never do that

I always do that

Going with the flow in how you do things means you're cool with switching up your plans if you need to.

Do you usually focus on what you can control when you're setting your goals?

I never do that

I always do that

Focusing on what you can control means putting your energy into the stuff you can actually change.

Do you get the right and accurate info before you make up your mind?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting info, when it comes to analytical thinking, means collecting and putting together the right data and facts so you can really understand a topic or problem better.

Do you break down complicated info into smaller parts?

I never do that

I always do that

Breaking stuff down when you're thinking things through means taking something complicated and splitting it up into smaller pieces so you can really get what’s going on.

Do you really look at info and think it through before making up your mind?

I never do that

I always do that

Digging into info means really looking at and thinking about data or facts so you can understand stuff better or figure out what’s actually going on with a certain topic or problem.

Do you check if info is trustworthy and reliable?

I never do that

I always do that

When it comes to analytical thinking, sizing up info means really digging into data, facts, and evidence to figure out if they're solid and to make smart calls based on them.

Do you come up with real and well-backed takeaways from the data and info you look at?

I never do that

I always do that

Coming up with real takeaways in analytical thinking means you use logic and proof to figure out smart and important points or decisions.

Do you notice and use what your teammates are good at?

I never do that

I always do that

Making the most of what others are good at means using everyone's unique skills to work better together.

Do you bring your own skills, knowledge, and point of view when you work with others?

I never do that

I always do that

Adding what makes you stand out means you bring your own skills or play your own roles to help the team work better together.

Do you team up with others to help cover for each other's weak spots?

I never do that

I always do that

Having each other's backs with weaknesses means someone steps in and helps out where someone else might not be so strong or might be struggling.

Do you make sure your efforts are in sync with everyone else so you all work toward the same goal?

I never do that

I always do that

Working toward a shared goal means everyone knows what we're all trying to do and actually teams up to make it happen.

Do you pick up new things from the people you work with?

I never do that

I always do that

When you're working together, learning from each other means everyone can pick up new knowledge, ideas, and skills from the people they're teaming up with.

Do you get past creative blocks?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting past creative blocks means you’ve got ways to push through stuff that gets in the way of your creativity.

Do you think outside the box?

I never do that

I always do that

Thinking outside the box when it comes to creativity means you look at problems or situations in a totally different and unexpected way.

Do you find yourself connecting ideas and concepts that don’t really seem related?

I never do that

I always do that

Making connections between things that don’t seem related means you’re able to spot links between stuff that at first looks totally different.

Do you take part in brainstorming sessions to come up with creative ideas?

I never do that

I always do that

Brainstorming is all about coming up with a bunch of ideas without shooting any of them down right away. It's a creative way to get lots of suggestions out there.

Do you work with other people to come up with creative ideas?

I never do that

I always do that

Teaming up with others when it comes to creativity means coming up with ideas together that you probably wouldn't think of by yourself.

Do you set goals that get you fired up?

I never do that

I always do that

Setting awesome goals means coming up with goals that really mean something and get you pumped to take action.

Do you get past roadblocks without losing your drive?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting past roadblocks means pushing through challenges or barriers that get in the way of hitting goals.

Do you keep your momentum goin' to stay motivated?

I never do that

I always do that

Keepin' the momentum goin' means always takin' action so you don't lose your grip.

Do you keep an eye on your progress toward hitting your goals to stay pumped?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping track of progress means regularly checking in on how things are going to hit your goals.

Do you celebrate your wins to keep yourself motivated?

I never do that

I always do that

Celebratin' wins means rewardin' successes as a way to boost motivation.

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