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Compassion Questionnaire

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1. Answer Questions

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Do you honestly try to get where other people are coming from?

I never do that

I always do that

Being curious means you really want to get where other people are coming from.

Do you try to find things you have in common when you talk to other people?

I never do that

I always do that

Looking for what you have in common means paying attention to the stuff you and others share.

Do you talk about your own experiences when you're chatting with other people?

I never do that

I always do that

Sharing experiences is all about telling your own stories in conversations so you can connect better with people.

Do you try to see things from other people's perspective?

I never do that

I always do that

Putting yourself in someone else's shoes means picturing yourself in their spot and trying to get what they're feeling and going through from their point of view.

Do you connect with your own feelings to help you get where other people are coming from?

I never do that

I always do that

Connecting with your feelings means you actually feel your emotions when you're thinking about what someone else is going through.

Do you really pay attention and stay focused when people talk to you?

I never do that

I always do that

Paying attention means really tuning in and listening to someone, showing you care and actually get what they're saying.

Do you let people finish what they're saying without cutting them off?

I never do that

I always do that

Not butting in means holding back and not jumping in while someone else is talking, so they can finish what they're saying.

Do you ask questions to make things clearer and really get what people are saying when you talk with them?

I never do that

I always do that

Asking questions is all about getting info and making sure you really get what someone means.

Do you make it obvious you’re really listening by nodding, keeping eye contact, or giving other nonverbal cues when you talk with people?

I never do that

I always do that

Showing you’re listening means you use your body language, things you say, and how you respond to make it clear you’re totally paying attention and involved in the conversation.

Do you hold off on making up your mind until you've got all the info you need?

I never do that

I always do that

Holding off on jumping to conclusions means you don't make assumptions or judge someone until they've had a chance to say everything they want.

Do you make sure not to push your opinions or solutions on people when you talk, and let them share what they think?

I never do that

I always do that

Pushing your opinion or solutions means kinda forcing your own views on someone else.

Do you pick up on and read facial expressions to get what other people are feeling or thinking?

I never do that

I always do that

Picking up on facial expressions means you can figure out what someone’s feeling just by looking at their face.

Do you get what different nonverbal gestures mean?

I never do that

I always do that

This is all about getting what people are saying with their body language, not just their words.

Are you good at picking up on and understanding what someone's posture is saying?

I never do that

I always do that

Reading someone's posture means being able to pick up on and get what someone's body position and alignment are saying, without them having to use words.

Do you pick up on tone when people talk, noticing the little differences in how they say things?

I never do that

I always do that

Picking up on tone means you can catch the little changes in someone’s voice and pitch to figure out how they're feeling.

Do you keep good eye contact when you talk to people?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping good eye contact means looking someone in the eyes without making it weird.

Do you show respect to people in your relationships?

I never do that

I always do that

Showing respect means being kind to people and recognizing their value and personal space.

Do you talk openly with people to build good relationships?

I never do that

I always do that

Being open when you talk means you share what you're thinking and feeling honestly, and you don't hide stuff.

Do you try to keep things equal in your relationships?

I never do that

I always do that

Going for equality in relationships means making sure things are fair and no one has more power than the other.

Do you usually reach out and keep in touch with other people?

I never do that

I always do that

Reaching out often means you’re regularly hitting people up and keeping in touch to build and keep up your relationship.

Do you bring something valuable to your relationships?

I never do that

I always do that

Exchange value is all about both people in a relationship having something worthwhile to give each other.

Do you notice your own biases?

I never do that

I always do that

Noticing your own biases means you know when you’ve got certain ideas or judgments in your head already.

Do you make choices on purpose that match up with your values and goals?

I never do that

I always do that

Making choices on purpose means you decide how you want to think, feel, and act.

Do you go looking for criticism from other people to get to know yourself better?

I never do that

I always do that

Looking for criticism means you go out of your way to get feedback so you can understand yourself better.

Do you know what you're good at and what you need to work on?

I never do that

I always do that

Knowing what you're good at and where you could use some work means you really get what your strengths are and what you might want to improve.

Do you look at things from other people's points of view?

I never do that

I always do that

Being open-minded means you're willing to look at things from different angles and spot stuff you might've missed.

Do you deal with conflicts?

I never do that

I always do that

Dealing with conflicts means you actually get involved when there's a disagreement.

Do you make sure everyone’s clear about what’s going on and what the issues are when there’s a conflict?

I never do that

I always do that

Figuring out problems during conflicts means really getting what’s going on and talking it through until everyone’s on the same page about what the problem actually is.

Do you stay away from blaming or pointing fingers at people?

I never do that

I always do that

Not blaming others when you’re working through a conflict means you don’t try to pin it on anyone.

Do you keep your cool and stay collected when things get heated?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping your cool during conflicts means you stay chill and in control so you can actually deal with and sort out the problem.

Do you get everyone involved when you're dealing with conflicts?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting everyone involved means making sure all the people or groups affected by the conflict are part of working things out, so everyone gets a say and can help figure out a solution.

Do you jump in and help figure out solutions when there's a conflict?

I never do that

I always do that

Figuring out solutions for conflicts means coming up with something that, ideally, everyone involved can get on board with.

Do you actually notice your own thoughts, feelings, and what you’re sensing in the moment?

I never do that

I always do that

Paying attention means you’re really focusing on what’s going on right now.

Do you try to stay in the moment?

I never do that

I always do that

Living in the moment is all about being totally present and not wasting your mental energy thinking about the past or stressing about the future.

Do you go with the flow in your everyday life, taking the good and the bad without judging or fighting it?

I never do that

I always do that

Going with the flow means just rolling with whatever's happening right now, without fighting it.

Do you quiet your mind when you're doing everyday stuff?

I never do that

I always do that

Calming your mind is all about stopping that nonstop stream of thoughts.

Do you notice your thoughts without putting labels on them?

I never do that

I always do that

Paying attention to your thoughts means just noticing whatever pops into your head, without getting caught up in them.

Do you check out different cultures?

I never do that

I always do that

Checking out different cultures is all about learning about all kinds of cultures so you can get a better feel for how other people see things.

Do you notice and value different backgrounds and cultures?

I never do that

I always do that

Appreciating diversity is all about noticing and really valuing the different cultural backgrounds people have.

Are you good at handling cultural differences?

I never do that

I always do that

Handling cultural differences is all about adjusting to other people's customs, beliefs, and ways of doing things so you can talk and work with them easily, even if they're from a totally different background.

Do you show respect to people from different cultural backgrounds?

I never do that

I always do that

When it comes to cultural awareness, showing respect means treating people from other cultures with dignity, trying to understand them, and appreciating their beliefs, customs, and values.

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Empathy

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