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Ready to see how your interpersonal skills truly impact your relations? Our free interpersonal skills test goes beyond self-reflection by letting you invite your partner, friends, or family to answer the same questions about you. This unique approach uncovers hidden strengths and blind spots, giving you a 360-degree view of your relationship skills. Understanding how others see you is the key to building trust, empathy, and deeper connections.

You'll receive a detailed report with easy-to-read charts, so you can spot patterns and track your progress. Compare your results to the average scores of other users to see where you stand. Get a personalized action plan focused on effective interpersonal communication and building interpersonal relationships. Access a resource library filled with advice from real users, and receive feedback tailored to your scores so you know exactly what your results mean. Plus, our AI coach is always available to support your interpersonal skills development. Take the first step toward more fulfilling relations today.

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Interpersonal skills questionnaire

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1. Answer Questions

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2. Invite others (optional)

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Do you embrace challenges and see them as opportunities for learning?

I never do that

I always do that

Embracing challenges means being open and willing to face and overcome difficult situations.

Do you maintain an open mindset, willing to consider new ideas and perspectives?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping an open mindset means you're willing to consider new ideas and perspectives and are open to change.

Do you adjust your approach and strategies when faced with changing circumstances or unexpected challenges?

I never do that

I always do that

Adjusting your approach means you're able to tweak your methods or strategies to better fit the situation.

Do you make the most of opportunities?

I never do that

I always do that

Taking advantage of opportunities means making the most of favorable circumstances or situations.

Do you stay aware of changes?

I never do that

I always do that

Being aware of changes means you need to stay informed and alert to developments to adapt effectively.

Are you attentive and fully engaged when others are speaking to you?

I never do that

I always do that

Paying attention means actively focusing and listening to someone, showing interest and understanding in what they're saying.

Do you avoid interrupting others when they are speaking, allowing them to express themselves fully?

I never do that

I always do that

Not interrupting means holding back from saying something while someone else is talking, so they can finish their story.

Do you ask questions to clarify and better understand what others are saying during conversations?

I never do that

I always do that

Asking questions means getting information and seeking clarification from someone.

Do you show that you are actively listening by using nonverbal cues and responses such as nodding and maintaining eye contact during conversations?

I never do that

I always do that

Showing that you're listening means that through your body language, verbal cues, and responses, you demonstrate that you're fully engaged and attentive during a conversation.

Do you postpone drawing conclusions until you have gathered all relevant information?

I never do that

I always do that

Postponing conclusions means you hold back from making assumptions or forming judgments about someone until that person has fully expressed themselves.

Do you avoid imposing your opinions or solutions on others during conversations, allowing them space to express their views?

I never do that

I always do that

Pushing your opinion or solutions refers to forcefully imposing your own views on someone else.

Do you clearly define your personal limits?

I never do that

I always do that

Setting your boundaries means establishing clear limits for yourself to communicate effectively and protect your personal space.

Do you effectively communicate your boundaries to others?

I never do that

I always do that

Communicating your boundaries means expressing your limits to build and maintain healthy relationships.

Do you guard your boundaries when they are violated by others?

I never do that

I always do that

Guarding your boundaries means actively protecting and maintaining your personal limits.

Do you say no when necessary, even when feeling pressured into saying yes?

I never do that

I always do that

Saying no means standing up for yourself by rejecting someone's demand to set and maintain personal boundaries.

Do you respect the boundaries set by others?

I never do that

I always do that

Respecting the boundaries others set means acknowledging and honoring the limits and personal space someone has established for themselves.

Do you apply different leadership styles in various situations?

I never do that

I always do that

Applying different leadership styles means using various approaches to lead in a way that's suitable for the situation.

Do you motivate others to achieve their goals?

I never do that

I always do that

Motivating means inspiring and encouraging someone to take action.

Do you effectively delegate tasks and responsibilities to others?

I never do that

I always do that

Delegating means assigning tasks or responsibilities to someone else.

Do you provide adequate support to your team members?

I never do that

I always do that

Support in leadership means giving help, guidance, and encouragement.

Do you actively encourage collaboration among team members?

I never do that

I always do that

Promoting collaboration in leadership means encouraging individuals to work together with others towards a common goal.

Do you demonstrate respect towards others in your relationships?

I never do that

I always do that

Respect for others means treating someone with kindness and acknowledging their worth and boundaries.

Do you communicate openly with others in order to build strong relationships?

I never do that

I always do that

Openly communicating means expressing thoughts, feelings, and concerns honestly and transparently.

Do you strive for equality in your relationships?

I never do that

I always do that

Striving for equality in relationships means making sure power dynamics are balanced.

Do you frequently initiate and maintain connections with others?

I never do that

I always do that

Often connecting means regularly reaching out and communicating with someone to strengthen and maintain the relationship.

Do you bring value to your relationships?

I never do that

I always do that

Exchange value means that the people in the relationship have something valuable to offer each other.

Do you address conflicts?

I never do that

I always do that

Handling conflicts means actively participating in disputes.

Do you clarify issues and concerns when conflicts arise?

I never do that

I always do that

Clarifying problems in conflicts means understanding the issue and talking about it until everyone agrees on what the problem is.

Do you avoid assigning blame or pointing fingers?

I never do that

I always do that

Avoiding blame in conflict resolution means you refrain from assigning blame.

Do you remain calm and composed when conflicts escalate?

I never do that

I always do that

Staying calm during conflicts means taking on a calm and controlled attitude to effectively tackle and resolve conflicts.

Do you involve all relevant parties when addressing conflicts?

I never do that

I always do that

Involving relevant parties means making sure that all individuals or groups affected by the conflict are included in the resolution process, so everyone has a voice and can contribute to finding a solution.

Do you actively participate in identifying solutions to conflicts?

I never do that

I always do that

Identifying solutions for conflicts means finding a solution that ideally can be accepted by everyone involved in the conflict.

Do you accurately recognize and understand your own emotions?

I never do that

I always do that

Self-awareness refers to someone's ability to recognize and understand their own emotions.

Do you show empathy toward others?

I never do that

I always do that

Empathy means you have the ability to understand and share someone else's feelings.

Do you stay in the present moment when others express their emotions?

I never do that

I always do that

In-the-moment means you're aware of the emotions that come up right now, instead of being caught up with emotions from the past.

Do you effectively navigate social situations in an emotionally intelligent manner?

I never do that

I always do that

Interpersonal skills refer to someone's ability to connect with others effectively on an emotional level.

Do you show integrity in emotionally challenging situations?

I never do that

I always do that

Integrity refers to someone's ability to act in line with their values.

Do you learn about different cultures?

I never do that

I always do that

Discovering different cultures means learning about diverse cultures to develop a broader understanding of different cultural perspectives.

Do you appreciate and value diversity?

I never do that

I always do that

Appreciating diversity means recognizing and valuing the differences in cultural backgrounds.

Do you navigate cultural differences effectively?

I never do that

I always do that

Dealing with cultural differences means adapting to the customs, beliefs, and behaviors of people from different cultures to communicate effectively with them.

Do you respect individuals from different cultural backgrounds?

I never do that

I always do that

Showing respect in the context of cultural awareness means treating someone from another culture with dignity, understanding, and appreciation for their beliefs, customs, and values.

Do you analyze the interests of all parties involved during negotiations?

I never do that

I always do that

Analyzing interests means looking into the motivations of others.

Do you give first, before asking for what you want?

I never do that

I always do that

Give first means offering value before asking for something.

Do you seek to find win-win solutions for everyone?

I never do that

I always do that

Finding win-win solutions means identifying mutually beneficial agreements.

Do you communicate your own desires during negotiations?

I never do that

I always do that

Expressing your wishes means saying what you want to achieve.

Do you explore multiple options during negotiations?

I never do that

I always do that

Having options means offering alternative acceptable outcomes to avoid giving an ultimatum.

Do you walk away from a negotiation when the terms or conditions are not favorable?

I never do that

I always do that

Being willing to walk away means someone should be ready to end a negotiation and not settle for a losing outcome.

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Ever wonder if your self-view matches how others experience you in relationships? Most skills tests only show you what you think about yourself, missing the bigger picture. This self-perception bias can leave you blind to the real impact your interpersonal skills have on your relations. Without honest feedback from those around you, you might overlook strengths you could build on or weaknesses that quietly hold you back. These blind spots can make it harder to create trust, resolve conflicts, or feel truly connected.

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When you invite others to share their perspective, you open the door to honest feedback that can transform your interpersonal skills for relationships. Getting input from your partner, friends, or family helps you see how your communication style and actions are truly received. This outside perspective reveals hidden strengths and blind spots, giving you the chance to make meaningful changes that build trust and understanding in your relations.

Sharing your results publicly can also motivate you and inspire encouragement from your support network. Friends and family can cheer you on, offer advice, and celebrate your progress. This sense of community makes the journey of improving interpersonal skills more rewarding and less lonely. By connecting with others, you gain fresh ideas and support that help you grow, making your relationships stronger and more resilient.



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Using Aidan means you never have to figure things out alone. Whether you want to strengthen your connection with a partner, improve teamwork, or resolve misunderstandings, Aidan gives you actionable steps and encouragement. This hands-on support helps you turn insights into real change, making your journey toward better relationships smoother and more effective.

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Strong interpersonal skills are the foundation of every healthy relationship. Whether you’re building a new friendship, deepening a romantic bond, or working through challenges with family, your ability to communicate, empathize, and resolve conflict shapes the quality of your connections. When you invest in your interpersonal skills for relationships, you open the door to trust, understanding, and lasting harmony. These skills help you navigate tough conversations, express your needs, and support those you care about—making every interaction more meaningful.

Many people want deeper connections but struggle to identify what’s holding them back. Transformative interpersonal skills are not just about talking—they’re about listening, understanding, and responding with empathy. When you focus on interpersonal skills growth, you create space for love, respect, and true companionship in your life.

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At Skills Builders, our mission is to empower you to take control of your personal growth and relationship success. We believe everyone deserves access to tools that help them understand themselves and connect with others. Our relationship skills assessment and resources are designed to make interpersonal skills development accessible, practical, and rewarding for all.

We’re here to help you discover your strengths, uncover blind spots, and build the confidence to improve your relationships. By offering free, easy-to-use tools, we support your journey toward emotional fulfillment and stronger connections.

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We envision a world where everyone has the chance to build meaningful, supportive relationships. By making interpersonal skills advice and resources available to all, we hope to create a ripple effect of understanding, empathy, and harmony. Our vision is to see people everywhere using transformative interpersonal skills to create happier, healthier lives—at home, at work, and in their communities.

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We value privacy and trust—your data is never shared or sold, and your results are yours alone unless you choose to share them. Our platform is free and accessible, with affordable paid options that support our mission to keep resources open to everyone. We believe in equality, offering tools that work for all backgrounds and relationship types.

Our resources are built by real users, so you benefit from the collective wisdom of a supportive community. Whether you’re looking for interpersonal skills connection, practical advice, or encouragement, you’ll find it here. Our AI coach, Aidan, offers instant, personalized support to help you turn insights into action.

We’re transparent about our methods and always focused on your needs. Every feature is designed to help you grow, connect, and feel more confident in your relationships.

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Our relationship skills assessment is more than just a test—it’s a roadmap for growth. By combining your self-assessment with feedback from those who know you best, you get a clear, honest view of your interpersonal skills. The detailed report, personalized action plan, and resource library give you everything you need to improve your communication, resolve conflicts, and build deeper connections.

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While it is not required, we highly recommend inviting others to provide input as it can help you uncover blind spots and validate your beliefs about your performance. The more input you receive, the more accurate your results will be.

You can send reminders to the people you’ve invited every three days, or you can invite more people to provide input. We recommend getting input from at least five people to compensate for any biases any one person might have. Even if you can’t get input from five people, the results can still be valuable, but might be less accurate.

The report you receive will give you a detailed overview of your skills and highlight areas for improvement. You'll see your scores for each subject and question, and receive personalized feedback and recommendations to help you grow.

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We take great care to ensure the accuracy of our questionnaires and regularly consult with experts to ensure our assessments are reliable. If you're concerned about the accuracy of your results, you can disable input from specific people who may have provided inaccurate information.

The free report gives you all the important insights and recommendations you need to improve your skills. The full report includes more detailed information, such as charts and graphs, and is available for those who want to support us and help us grow. Question: How do I co

You can compare your results to the average scores of others who have taken the questionnaire. Additionally, you can apply filters such as gender, age, occupation, or education level to see how you compare to others in those groups.

You'll receive an email notification each time someone finishes answering their questions, but only if you have notifications turned on.

We understand that everyone has their own perception of themselves, but it's important to keep an open mind and use the results as an opportunity for growth. If you feel that someone's input may have affected your results negatively, you can disable their input.

An action plan is a personalized list of actions you can take to improve your skills. It's based on your skill level and the feedback provided in your report. As you complete actions, new ones will be added to help you continue growing.

We provide recommendations for high-quality resources such as articles, books, videos, and courses that can help you develop your skills. These recommendations are regularly updated and added to over time, so be sure to check your report regularly for new suggestions.

Shared resources are valuable insights and tools that others have found helpful in building and nurturing their relationships. By sharing resources that have positively impacted your own relationships skills, you’re contributing to a supportive community focused on personal growth.
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