Free Coaching Skills Assessment for Relationship Development

Curious about how your coaching skills influence your relationships? Our free coaching skills assessment goes beyond self-reflection. You can invite your partner, friends, or family to answer the same questions about you, providing a real-world perspective on your strengths and blind spots. This approach helps you understand how your relationship skills are perceived by those who matter most.

Receive a detailed, free report featuring clear charts and personalized feedback based on your scores. Compare your results with averages from other users to understand your standing. You’ll also access a step-by-step action plan and a resource library created by people like you. If you choose, you can make your results public and share your progress. Additionally, our AI assistant is available to support your understanding throughout your journey. Explore how coaching skills for relationship connection can help you build trust, empathy, and lasting harmony.

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Do you honestly try to get where other people are coming from?

I never do that

I always do that

Being curious means you really want to get where other people are coming from.

Do you try to find things you have in common when you talk to other people?

I never do that

I always do that

Looking for what you have in common means paying attention to the stuff you and others share.

Do you talk about your own experiences when you're chatting with other people?

I never do that

I always do that

Sharing experiences is all about telling your own stories in conversations so you can connect better with people.

Do you try to see things from other people's perspective?

I never do that

I always do that

Putting yourself in someone else's shoes means picturing yourself in their spot and trying to get what they're feeling and going through from their point of view.

Do you connect with your own feelings to help you get where other people are coming from?

I never do that

I always do that

Connecting with your feelings means you actually feel your emotions when you're thinking about what someone else is going through.

Do you really pay attention and stay focused when people talk to you?

I never do that

I always do that

Paying attention means really tuning in and listening to someone, showing you care and actually get what they're saying.

Do you let people finish what they're saying without cutting them off?

I never do that

I always do that

Not butting in means holding back and not jumping in while someone else is talking, so they can finish what they're saying.

Do you ask questions to make things clearer and really get what people are saying when you talk with them?

I never do that

I always do that

Asking questions is all about getting info and making sure you really get what someone means.

Do you make it obvious you’re really listening by nodding, keeping eye contact, or giving other nonverbal cues when you talk with people?

I never do that

I always do that

Showing you’re listening means you use your body language, things you say, and how you respond to make it clear you’re totally paying attention and involved in the conversation.

Do you hold off on making up your mind until you've got all the info you need?

I never do that

I always do that

Holding off on jumping to conclusions means you don't make assumptions or judge someone until they've had a chance to say everything they want.

Do you make sure not to push your opinions or solutions on people when you talk, and let them share what they think?

I never do that

I always do that

Pushing your opinion or solutions means kinda forcing your own views on someone else.

Do you set goals that matter and fit what you want in life?

I never do that

I always do that

Setting goals that matter means going after stuff that's actually worth your time.

Do you make action plans to reach your goals?

I never do that

I always do that

Making action plans is all about coming up with a step-by-step plan to hit your goals.

Do you keep track of how you're doing with your goals?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping tabs on progress is all about checking in on how things are going with your goals so you can stay on track and tweak things if you need to.

Do you go with the flow when you're working toward your goals?

I never do that

I always do that

Going with the flow in how you do things means you're cool with switching up your plans if you need to.

Do you usually focus on what you can control when you're setting your goals?

I never do that

I always do that

Focusing on what you can control means putting your energy into the stuff you can actually change.

Do you pick up on and read facial expressions to get what other people are feeling or thinking?

I never do that

I always do that

Picking up on facial expressions means you can figure out what someone’s feeling just by looking at their face.

Do you get what different nonverbal gestures mean?

I never do that

I always do that

This is all about getting what people are saying with their body language, not just their words.

Are you good at picking up on and understanding what someone's posture is saying?

I never do that

I always do that

Reading someone's posture means being able to pick up on and get what someone's body position and alignment are saying, without them having to use words.

Do you pick up on tone when people talk, noticing the little differences in how they say things?

I never do that

I always do that

Picking up on tone means you can catch the little changes in someone’s voice and pitch to figure out how they're feeling.

Do you keep good eye contact when you talk to people?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping good eye contact means looking someone in the eyes without making it weird.

Do you notice your own biases?

I never do that

I always do that

Noticing your own biases means you know when you’ve got certain ideas or judgments in your head already.

Do you make choices on purpose that match up with your values and goals?

I never do that

I always do that

Making choices on purpose means you decide how you want to think, feel, and act.

Do you go looking for criticism from other people to get to know yourself better?

I never do that

I always do that

Looking for criticism means you go out of your way to get feedback so you can understand yourself better.

Do you know what you're good at and what you need to work on?

I never do that

I always do that

Knowing what you're good at and where you could use some work means you really get what your strengths are and what you might want to improve.

Do you look at things from other people's points of view?

I never do that

I always do that

Being open-minded means you're willing to look at things from different angles and spot stuff you might've missed.

Do you really notice and get your own emotions?

I never do that

I always do that

Self-awareness is all about being able to notice and get what you're feeling.

Do you show empathy to other people?

I never do that

I always do that

Empathy means you get what other people are feeling and can really put yourself in their shoes.

Do you stay focused on what's happening right now when other people share how they're feeling?

I never do that

I always do that

Being in-the-moment means you notice the feelings popping up right now, instead of getting stuck on stuff you felt before.

Are you good at handling social situations with emotional smarts?

I never do that

I always do that

People skills are all about how well you can connect with others on an emotional level.

Do you stick to your values when things get emotional or tough?

I never do that

I always do that

Integrity means you stick to your values, even when things get tough.

Do you get your messages across in a way that really hits home?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting your messages across with impact means using effective talking techniques to make sure someone really gets what you're saying.

Do you think before you speak, thinking about how your words might affect things?

I never do that

I always do that

Thinking before you speak means you really think about what you're gonna say before you say it.

Do you keep it short and sweet when you talk?

I never do that

I always do that

Using clear and to-the-point language means getting your thoughts across without any extra or unnecessary words.

Do you use tonality effectively?

I never do that

I always do that

Using effective tonality means using the right pitch, volume, and intonation to get your point across.

Do you really listen when you're talking with someone?

I never do that

I always do that

Active listening means you're all in with someone and give thoughtful responses.

Do you ask the right questions to get the info you need?

I never do that

I always do that

Askin' the right questions means you thoughtfully ask about a topic to get the info you need.

Do you ask follow-up questions to get a better understanding?

I never do that

I always do that

Asking follow-up questions means trying to get more info or clear things up with someone after they've given an initial answer.

Do you check your assumptions when you're asking questions?

I never do that

I always do that

Checking assumptions often means regularly making sure if the response was taken the way you meant it.

Do you sum up chats?

I never do that

I always do that

Summing up is all about giving a quick rundown of the main points to make sure the message is clear.

Do you get the right info when figuring out problems?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting the info means collecting the right data to get a better handle on and define the problem.

Do you check out data to spot problems?

I never do that

I always do that

Checking out data means going through info to get some insights.

Do you notice patterns when you're checking out problems?

I never do that

I always do that

Noticing patterns is all about catching those repeating trends to get what's common.

Do you get what causes problems underneath it all?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting what causes stuff means you're able to spot the things that lead to a problem.

Do you spot new issues before they turn into a problem?

I never do that

I always do that

New stuff poppin' up means new or unexpected problems.

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Empathy

Genuine compassion for others to establish a deep understanding and connection

Active Listening

Giving undivided attention using nonverbal cues and asking clarifying questions

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Define meaningful objectives to pursue desirable outcomes

Body Language

Understanding nonverbal communication

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Recognizing Your Own Beliefs and Values

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Understanding and Managing Emotions Both Within Yourself and Others

Verbal Communication

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Question Asking

Asking Thoughtful and Meaningful Questions

Problem Identification

Recognize and define issues that need to be addressed

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How Skills Builders Supports Your Coaching Skills

When it comes to relationships, relying solely on your own perspective can limit your growth. Many people assess their coaching skills based on self-perception, which often overlooks important aspects. Everyone has blind spots—areas where you believe you excel but others may see room for improvement. This bias can hinder the trust, empathy, and connection you want in your relationships.

Without honest feedback from others, you might overestimate your strengths or miss behaviors that interfere with deeper connection. This can lead to misunderstandings, missed opportunities, and frustration in your personal life. You may wonder why some conversations don’t go as planned or why resolving conflicts remains challenging despite your efforts.

Skills Builders addresses this by providing relationship coaching skills feedback from people who know you—partners, friends, or coworkers—giving you a comprehensive view of your coaching skills. You’ll identify where you excel and where growth is possible, supported by practical, personalized suggestions. Our tools help you develop effective coaching techniques for relationships, enhance communication, and build stronger, smoother connections. Skills Builders assists you in turning insights into action to foster the relationships you want.

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Receiving feedback from trusted individuals offers a fresh perspective on your coaching skills for relationships. Their honest input can reveal hidden strengths and areas for improvement that you might not notice yourself. This external viewpoint supports building empathy, understanding, and stronger bonds—essential for healthy, lasting relationships.

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Building strong relationships is fundamental to a satisfying life. Whether connecting with a partner, friend, or coworker, your ability to communicate, listen, and support others influences every relationship. Even the most caring individuals can struggle to identify areas for growth. Developing effective coaching skills for relationships is important—it helps reveal blind spots, build trust, and foster lasting connections.

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