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Do you honestly try to get where other people are coming from?

I never do that

I always do that

Being curious means you really want to get where other people are coming from.

Do you try to find things you have in common when you talk to other people?

I never do that

I always do that

Looking for what you have in common means paying attention to the stuff you and others share.

Do you talk about your own experiences when you're chatting with other people?

I never do that

I always do that

Sharing experiences is all about telling your own stories in conversations so you can connect better with people.

Do you try to see things from other people's perspective?

I never do that

I always do that

Putting yourself in someone else's shoes means picturing yourself in their spot and trying to get what they're feeling and going through from their point of view.

Do you connect with your own feelings to help you get where other people are coming from?

I never do that

I always do that

Connecting with your feelings means you actually feel your emotions when you're thinking about what someone else is going through.

Do you really pay attention and stay focused when people talk to you?

I never do that

I always do that

Paying attention means really tuning in and listening to someone, showing you care and actually get what they're saying.

Do you let people finish what they're saying without cutting them off?

I never do that

I always do that

Not butting in means holding back and not jumping in while someone else is talking, so they can finish what they're saying.

Do you ask questions to make things clearer and really get what people are saying when you talk with them?

I never do that

I always do that

Asking questions is all about getting info and making sure you really get what someone means.

Do you make it obvious you’re really listening by nodding, keeping eye contact, or giving other nonverbal cues when you talk with people?

I never do that

I always do that

Showing you’re listening means you use your body language, things you say, and how you respond to make it clear you’re totally paying attention and involved in the conversation.

Do you hold off on making up your mind until you've got all the info you need?

I never do that

I always do that

Holding off on jumping to conclusions means you don't make assumptions or judge someone until they've had a chance to say everything they want.

Do you make sure not to push your opinions or solutions on people when you talk, and let them share what they think?

I never do that

I always do that

Pushing your opinion or solutions means kinda forcing your own views on someone else.

Do you make it clear where your personal limits are?

I never do that

I always do that

Setting your boundaries is all about making it clear where your limits are, so you can get your point across and keep your own space safe.

Do you let people know what your boundaries are?

I never do that

I always do that

Letting people know your boundaries means telling others what you're cool with and what you're not, so you can have good, healthy relationships.

Do you stand up for your boundaries when someone crosses them?

I never do that

I always do that

Standing up for your boundaries means you’re actually looking out for yourself and making sure people don’t cross your personal lines.

Do you say no when you need to, even if you feel like people are pushing you to say yes?

I never do that

I always do that

Saying no is all about standing up for yourself and turning down what someone wants so you can keep your own boundaries.

Do you respect other people's boundaries?

I never do that

I always do that

Respecting other people's boundaries means you notice and honor the limits and personal space someone wants for themselves.

Do you make plans and actually stick to them to use your time well?

I never do that

I always do that

Making plans is all about organizing and scheduling stuff so you can make the most of your time.

Do you use a schedule to help you manage your time?

I never do that

I always do that

Sticking to a schedule means planning out what you’re gonna do and when you’re gonna do it.

Do you figure out what’s most important or urgent so you get the important stuff done on time?

I never do that

I always do that

Prioritizing is all about figuring out what stuff is most important or urgent, and what should get done first.

Do you split up tasks into smaller, doable steps?

I never do that

I always do that

Chunking is just splitting up big tasks into smaller, easier steps.

Do you block out distractions so you can stay focused on what you're doing?

I never do that

I always do that

Blocking out distractions is all about getting rid of stuff around you that can pull your attention away.

Do you set deadlines that you can actually meet?

I never do that

I always do that

Setting deadlines is all about picking a specific time when stuff needs to get done.

Do you work out to help deal with your stress?

I never do that

I always do that

Working out means doing any kind of physical activity on purpose.

Do you notice your breathing to help deal with stress?

I never do that

I always do that

Conscious breathing means you’re purposely paying attention to your breath.

Do you take a break and walk away from stressful situations when you just can't keep your cool?

I never do that

I always do that

Taking a break from the situation means you actually leave the place for a bit.

Do you notice what things make you feel stressed?

I never do that

I always do that

Figuring out what stresses you out means noticing the things that set you off or make you feel stressed.

Do you talk to people you trust about what’s on your mind to help you feel less stressed?

I never do that

I always do that

Sharing what’s on your mind means talking about the stuff that’s bothering you.

Do you let your feelings out with people you trust to help you deal with stress?

I never do that

I always do that

Letting your feelings out means you’ve got a healthy way to share what you’re feeling.

Do you deal with conflicts?

I never do that

I always do that

Dealing with conflicts means you actually get involved when there's a disagreement.

Do you make sure everyone’s clear about what’s going on and what the issues are when there’s a conflict?

I never do that

I always do that

Figuring out problems during conflicts means really getting what’s going on and talking it through until everyone’s on the same page about what the problem actually is.

Do you stay away from blaming or pointing fingers at people?

I never do that

I always do that

Not blaming others when you’re working through a conflict means you don’t try to pin it on anyone.

Do you keep your cool and stay collected when things get heated?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping your cool during conflicts means you stay chill and in control so you can actually deal with and sort out the problem.

Do you get everyone involved when you're dealing with conflicts?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting everyone involved means making sure all the people or groups affected by the conflict are part of working things out, so everyone gets a say and can help figure out a solution.

Do you jump in and help figure out solutions when there's a conflict?

I never do that

I always do that

Figuring out solutions for conflicts means coming up with something that, ideally, everyone involved can get on board with.

Can you get past self-doubt?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting past self-doubt is all about feeling sure of what you can do.

Do you use what you're good at to boost your confidence?

I never do that

I always do that

Leaning into what you're good at means using the stuff that makes you stand out.

Do you use your past wins to give yourself a confidence boost?

I never do that

I always do that

Building on past wins means using stuff you've already accomplished to help you feel more confident in what you can do.

Are you cool with the fact that your abilities are what they are right now, but you can get better over time?

I never do that

I always do that

Being as awesome as you are means knowing what you can do right now, without stressing about having to do more than you're able to.

Do you stick to your own standards?

I never do that

I always do that

Doing your own thing means you try to live up to what you expect from yourself, not what other people (who might be unrealistic) expect from you.

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Without solid assertiveness, misunderstandings and grudges can quietly build up. You might feel like no one’s listening or worry you’re not being true to yourself. But with the right skills, you can totally change your relationships—making them happier, safer, and more fulfilling for everyone involved.

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We picture a future where everyone’s got the confidence and skills to create meaningful, peaceful relationships. Our vision is to make assertive communication a natural part of life, so trust, empathy, and teamwork become the norm. By offering fresh, easy-to-use resources, we want to help people everywhere grow together—at home, at work, and in their communities.

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