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Wanna see how self awareness shapes your relationships? Our free self awareness test goes beyond the usual by letting you invite your partner, friends, or family to answer the same questions about you. This unique approach shows not just how you see yourself, but also how others experience you—uncovering hidden strengths and blind spots that can make or break your connections.

After you finish, you’ll get a detailed report packed with easy-to-read charts and personalized feedback based on your scores. Compare your results to others to see where you stand, and use your free action plan to start making real changes right away. You’ll also have access to a growing library of resources shared by other users, plus the option to share your results for extra support. With self awareness tools for better relationships, you’ll get practical steps to boost trust, empathy, and understanding in every interaction.

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Self-awareness questionnaire

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Do you know why you do what you do when you have to stick it out?

I never do that

I always do that

Figuring out your why is all about finding what really motivates you.

Are you good at rolling with changes, even when things get tough out of nowhere?

I never do that

I always do that

Rolling with change means you can handle new stuff as it comes up.

Do you keep a positive outlook about the future, even when things get tough?

I never do that

I always do that

Being optimistic about the future means staying hopeful about what's coming up.

Do you take charge of your thoughts to help you bounce back?

I never do that

I always do that

Taking charge of your thoughts means you’re in control of your mindset and you’re picking thoughts that lift you up.

Do you keep your cool and stay chill when things get tough?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping your cool means you don't lose it when you're stressed out.

Do you feel good about who you are, and recognize both your strong points and your flaws?

I never do that

I always do that

Being cool with who you are means you accept and appreciate yourself, just as you are, without needing anyone else’s approval.

Do you share what you really think, feel, and believe in a real and honest way?

I never do that

I always do that

Self-expression is all about being open and honest about what you really think, feel, and who you are, without feeling like you have to fit in or pretend.

Do you stick to who you are and what you believe in, even when other people try to push you to change?

I never do that

I always do that

Being real with yourself means you don't change who you are just to fit in or make others happy.

Do you stick to your values?

I never do that

I always do that

Sticking to your personal values means you act in a way that matches what you believe in and who you are.

Do you go with your gut?

I never do that

I always do that

Going with your gut means trusting that little voice inside and your instincts, so you can stay true to yourself.

Do you try not to judge other people?

I never do that

I always do that

Not judging means you don’t jump to negative conclusions about who someone really is or how they honestly express themselves.

Do you make it clear where your personal limits are?

I never do that

I always do that

Setting your boundaries is all about making it clear where your limits are, so you can get your point across and keep your own space safe.

Do you let people know what your boundaries are?

I never do that

I always do that

Letting people know your boundaries means telling others what you're cool with and what you're not, so you can have good, healthy relationships.

Do you stand up for your boundaries when someone crosses them?

I never do that

I always do that

Standing up for your boundaries means you’re actually looking out for yourself and making sure people don’t cross your personal lines.

Do you say no when you need to, even if you feel like people are pushing you to say yes?

I never do that

I always do that

Saying no is all about standing up for yourself and turning down what someone wants so you can keep your own boundaries.

Do you respect other people's boundaries?

I never do that

I always do that

Respecting other people's boundaries means you notice and honor the limits and personal space someone wants for themselves.

Do you look at challenges as chances to grow?

I never do that

I always do that

Seeing challenges as chances means you look at tough stuff or problems as ways to learn something new or move forward.

Do you actually think about your mistakes and try to learn from them?

I never do that

I always do that

Thinking about messing up means you actually take some time to look back and figure out what went wrong and what you can learn from it.

Do you actually try to let go of your doubts?

I never do that

I always do that

Letting go of doubt means you drop all that uncertainty.

Do you go out of your way to get criticism?

I never do that

I always do that

Looking for criticism means you go out of your way to get feedback from other people.

Do you really notice and get your own emotions?

I never do that

I always do that

Self-awareness is all about being able to notice and get what you're feeling.

Do you show empathy to other people?

I never do that

I always do that

Empathy means you get what other people are feeling and can really put yourself in their shoes.

Do you stay focused on what's happening right now when other people share how they're feeling?

I never do that

I always do that

Being in-the-moment means you notice the feelings popping up right now, instead of getting stuck on stuff you felt before.

Are you good at handling social situations with emotional smarts?

I never do that

I always do that

People skills are all about how well you can connect with others on an emotional level.

Do you stick to your values when things get emotional or tough?

I never do that

I always do that

Integrity means you stick to your values, even when things get tough.

Can you get past self-doubt?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting past self-doubt is all about feeling sure of what you can do.

Do you use what you're good at to boost your confidence?

I never do that

I always do that

Leaning into what you're good at means using the stuff that makes you stand out.

Do you use your past wins to give yourself a confidence boost?

I never do that

I always do that

Building on past wins means using stuff you've already accomplished to help you feel more confident in what you can do.

Are you cool with the fact that your abilities are what they are right now, but you can get better over time?

I never do that

I always do that

Being as awesome as you are means knowing what you can do right now, without stressing about having to do more than you're able to.

Do you stick to your own standards?

I never do that

I always do that

Doing your own thing means you try to live up to what you expect from yourself, not what other people (who might be unrealistic) expect from you.

Do you jot down your thoughts to look back on stuff you've been through?

I never do that

I always do that

Jotting down your thoughts just means putting your own ideas and reflections on paper.

Do you look back at situations to see what you can learn from them?

I never do that

I always do that

Sizing up situations is all about looking back at what happened so you can figure out why you did what you did.

Do you like getting feedback from other people to see your performance from a different angle?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting feedback from other people means asking someone else for their thoughts or opinions, especially if they see things differently than you do.

Do you honestly look at yourself and think about what you're really like?

I never do that

I always do that

Being real with yourself means actually admitting your true thoughts, feelings, and what you do, even if it's stuff you don't really wanna face.

Do you notice when you're getting better by thinking about it yourself?

I never do that

I always do that

Seeing your improvements means you actually pay attention to how you're doing and notice when you get better.

Do you ever think about yourself and what you do?

I never do that

I always do that

Thinking about yourself means taking some time to look at what you’re thinking, how you’re feeling, and what you’re doing.

Do you get involved in stuff that helps keep you fit and healthy?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping fit means taking care of your body by doing stuff like working out and eating right.

Do you get involved in stuff that boosts and keeps your mental health in good shape?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping your mental health in check means looking after your psychological well-being.

Do you get involved in stuff that helps keep you feeling good emotionally?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping your emotional health in check means looking after how you feel.

Do you make time for stuff that takes care of your own needs?

I never do that

I always do that

Treating yourself means taking care of your own needs.

Do you have and keep up with healthy habits and routines that help you feel good?

I never do that

I always do that

Building healthy habits means setting up routines to keep you feeling good physically, mentally, and emotionally.

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It’s easy to think we know ourselves best, but in relationships, self-perception bias can quietly hold us back. You might think you’re a great listener or a supportive partner, but without honest feedback, it’s tough to spot the gaps between how you see yourself and how others see you. This disconnect can cause misunderstandings, missed chances to connect, and even fights—leaving you feeling stuck or misunderstood.

When you only go by your own view, you risk missing out on the self awareness perks for relationships that come from seeing yourself through someone else’s eyes. That can make it hard to build trust, sort out conflicts, or grow together as a couple. The frustration of going over the same stuff or feeling disconnected can be rough, especially when you want deeper, more meaningful bonds.

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Every relationship thrives on trust, empathy, and honest communication. But even the strongest bonds can be tested by misunderstandings or unspoken feelings. Self awareness is the foundation for recognizing your own emotions, understanding how you impact others, and building the kind of connections that last. When you know yourself, you can show up more authentically and respond to your partner’s needs with compassion. That’s why transformative self awareness for relationships is at the heart of what we do.

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At Skills Builders, our mission is to empower you to take charge of your personal growth and relationship success. We believe everyone deserves access to self awareness tools for better relationships—no matter your background or experience. Our platform is designed to make self discovery simple, doable, and rewarding, so you can build the skills that matter most for connection and happiness.

We’re here to help you spot blind spots, build your strengths, and grow with confidence. By making our resources free and easy to get, we want to support as many people as possible on their journey to better self awareness and stronger relations.

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We see a world where everyone gets the chance to build deep, meaningful relationships through self awareness and emotional smarts. Our vision is to make soft skills development open to all, making it easy for anyone to find their potential and make lasting change. We’re all about innovation, using smart tech and community-driven insights to help you grow—both as a person and as a partner.

By offering self awareness tips for relationship growth and practical tools, we hope to spark a global movement toward healthier, more fulfilling connections.

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Skills Builders stands out because we put you at the center of your growth journey. Our self awareness questionnaire for relationships doesn’t just ask you to think—it invites feedback from the people who know you best. This 360-degree approach uncovers hidden strengths and blind spots, giving you a fuller picture of your relationship skills.

We care about privacy and trust. Your results are yours alone, and you decide who gets to see them. Our platform is free to use, with affordable paid options that keep the innovation going and access open for everyone. We’re all about equality, making sure our tools are available in lots of languages and easy for everyone to use.

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