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Ready to see how assertiveness shapes your life? Our free assertiveness quiz goes beyond the usual self-reflection. You’ll answer questions about yourself, but here’s the twist: you can invite friends, family, or colleagues to answer the same questions about you. This unique approach reveals your hidden strengths and blind spots, giving you a 360° view of your assertiveness skills for life.

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Assertiveness Questionnaire

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2. Invite others (optional)

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3. Compare your results

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Do you show genuine curiosity when trying to understand others?

I never do that

I always do that

Being curious means you're really interested in understanding others.

Do you focus on finding common ground when interacting with others?

I never do that

I always do that

Focusing on similarities means paying attention to what you have in common.

Do you share your own experiences in conversations with other people?

I never do that

I always do that

Sharing experiences means sharing relatable personal stories in conversations to foster a deeper connection.

Do you put yourself in the situations of others?

I never do that

I always do that

Putting yourself in someone else's situation means imagining yourself in their circumstances and trying to understand their feelings and experiences from their perspective.

Do you connect with your own feelings as a way to better understand the feelings of others?

I never do that

I always do that

Connecting with your feelings means you feel your emotions in relation to someone else's experiences.

Are you attentive and fully engaged when others are speaking to you?

I never do that

I always do that

Paying attention means actively focusing and listening to someone, showing interest and understanding in what they're saying.

Do you avoid interrupting others when they are speaking, allowing them to express themselves fully?

I never do that

I always do that

Not interrupting means holding back from saying something while someone else is talking, so they can finish their story.

Do you ask questions to clarify and better understand what others are saying during conversations?

I never do that

I always do that

Asking questions means getting information and seeking clarification from someone.

Do you show that you are actively listening by using nonverbal cues and responses such as nodding and maintaining eye contact during conversations?

I never do that

I always do that

Showing that you're listening means that through your body language, verbal cues, and responses, you demonstrate that you're fully engaged and attentive during a conversation.

Do you postpone drawing conclusions until you have gathered all relevant information?

I never do that

I always do that

Postponing conclusions means you hold back from making assumptions or forming judgments about someone until that person has fully expressed themselves.

Do you avoid imposing your opinions or solutions on others during conversations, allowing them space to express their views?

I never do that

I always do that

Pushing your opinion or solutions refers to forcefully imposing your own views on someone else.

Do you clearly define your personal limits?

I never do that

I always do that

Setting your boundaries means establishing clear limits for yourself to communicate effectively and protect your personal space.

Do you effectively communicate your boundaries to others?

I never do that

I always do that

Communicating your boundaries means expressing your limits to build and maintain healthy relationships.

Do you guard your boundaries when they are violated by others?

I never do that

I always do that

Guarding your boundaries means actively protecting and maintaining your personal limits.

Do you say no when necessary, even when feeling pressured into saying yes?

I never do that

I always do that

Saying no means standing up for yourself by rejecting someone's demand to set and maintain personal boundaries.

Do you respect the boundaries set by others?

I never do that

I always do that

Respecting the boundaries others set means acknowledging and honoring the limits and personal space someone has established for themselves.

Do you create and follow through with plans to manage your time efficiently?

I never do that

I always do that

Making plans means organizing and scheduling activities to use the available time effectively.

Do you keep a schedule as a way to manage your time?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping a schedule means planning activities within a certain time period.

Do you prioritize activities to ensure that urgent and important tasks are completed on time?

I never do that

I always do that

Prioritizing means figuring out the order of importance or urgency for activities.

Do you break up tasks into manageable activities?

I never do that

I always do that

Chunking means breaking down larger tasks into smaller, more manageable actions.

Do you block out distractions to maintain focus on the task you are engaged in?

I never do that

I always do that

Blocking distractions means eliminating external factors that can divert someone's attention.

Do you set realistic deadlines?

I never do that

I always do that

Setting deadlines means establishing a specific time by which activities must be completed.

Do you engage in physical exercise to help manage your stress levels?

I never do that

I always do that

Physical exercise refers to engaging in any form of intentional physical activity.

Do you pay attention to your breathing as a way to manage stress?

I never do that

I always do that

Conscious breathing refers to the practice of intentionally focusing on your breath.

Do you temporarily step away from stressful situations when you are unable to retain your composure?

I never do that

I always do that

Stepping away from the situation means you physically remove yourself from an environment.

Do you identify factors that cause you stress?

I never do that

I always do that

Identifying stressors means recognizing the specific triggers that cause someone to experience stress.

Do you share your thoughts with people you trust in order to relieve stress?

I never do that

I always do that

Sharing your thoughts means expressing the worries that are on your mind.

Do you vent your emotions with people you trust in order to relieve stress?

I never do that

I always do that

Expressing your emotions means having a healthy outlet to share your feelings.

Do you address conflicts?

I never do that

I always do that

Handling conflicts means actively participating in disputes.

Do you clarify issues and concerns when conflicts arise?

I never do that

I always do that

Clarifying problems in conflicts means understanding the issue and talking about it until everyone agrees on what the problem is.

Do you avoid assigning blame or pointing fingers?

I never do that

I always do that

Avoiding blame in conflict resolution means you refrain from assigning blame.

Do you remain calm and composed when conflicts escalate?

I never do that

I always do that

Staying calm during conflicts means taking on a calm and controlled attitude to effectively tackle and resolve conflicts.

Do you involve all relevant parties when addressing conflicts?

I never do that

I always do that

Involving relevant parties means making sure that all individuals or groups affected by the conflict are included in the resolution process, so everyone has a voice and can contribute to finding a solution.

Do you actively participate in identifying solutions to conflicts?

I never do that

I always do that

Identifying solutions for conflicts means finding a solution that ideally can be accepted by everyone involved in the conflict.

Do you have the ability to overcome self-doubt?

I never do that

I always do that

Overcoming self-doubt means building confidence in your own abilities.

Do you utilize your strengths to enhance your self-confidence?

I never do that

I always do that

Playing to your strengths means using your unique skills and talents.

Do you capitalize on your previous successes to boost your self-confidence?

I never do that

I always do that

Building on past successes means using previous achievements to boost your belief in your own abilities.

Do you accept that your current abilities cannot be better than they are now, but can improve over time?

I never do that

I always do that

Being as good as you are means recognizing your abilities as they are now, without feeling the pressure to perform beyond your capabilities.

Do you live up to your own standards?

I never do that

I always do that

Living by your own standards means someone should try to meet their own expectations instead of the (unrealistic) standards of others.

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