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Find out how your communication affects your relationships with our free communication test. Unlike typical online quizzes, you can invite your partner, friends, or family to answer the same questions about you. This one-of-a-kind approach shows not just how you see yourself, but also how others experience your communication—helping you spot hidden strengths and blind spots that affect your connections.

You'll get a detailed report with easy-to-understand charts, so you can clearly see where you shine and where you can improve. Compare your results to others for extra insight, and get a personalized action plan to help you get better. Access a resource library made by real users, and enjoy feedback tailored to your scores so you know exactly what your results mean. If you want, you can share your results publicly and invite support from your network. Plus, our AI coach is always ready to help you on your journey to better communication skills for stronger relationships.

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Do you honestly try to get where other people are coming from?

I never do that

I always do that

Being curious means you really want to get where other people are coming from.

Do you try to find things you have in common when you talk to other people?

I never do that

I always do that

Looking for what you have in common means paying attention to the stuff you and others share.

Do you talk about your own experiences when you're chatting with other people?

I never do that

I always do that

Sharing experiences is all about telling your own stories in conversations so you can connect better with people.

Do you try to see things from other people's perspective?

I never do that

I always do that

Putting yourself in someone else's shoes means picturing yourself in their spot and trying to get what they're feeling and going through from their point of view.

Do you connect with your own feelings to help you get where other people are coming from?

I never do that

I always do that

Connecting with your feelings means you actually feel your emotions when you're thinking about what someone else is going through.

Do you really pay attention and stay focused when people talk to you?

I never do that

I always do that

Paying attention means really tuning in and listening to someone, showing you care and actually get what they're saying.

Do you let people finish what they're saying without cutting them off?

I never do that

I always do that

Not butting in means holding back and not jumping in while someone else is talking, so they can finish what they're saying.

Do you ask questions to make things clearer and really get what people are saying when you talk with them?

I never do that

I always do that

Asking questions is all about getting info and making sure you really get what someone means.

Do you make it obvious you’re really listening by nodding, keeping eye contact, or giving other nonverbal cues when you talk with people?

I never do that

I always do that

Showing you’re listening means you use your body language, things you say, and how you respond to make it clear you’re totally paying attention and involved in the conversation.

Do you hold off on making up your mind until you've got all the info you need?

I never do that

I always do that

Holding off on jumping to conclusions means you don't make assumptions or judge someone until they've had a chance to say everything they want.

Do you make sure not to push your opinions or solutions on people when you talk, and let them share what they think?

I never do that

I always do that

Pushing your opinion or solutions means kinda forcing your own views on someone else.

Do you pick up on and read facial expressions to get what other people are feeling or thinking?

I never do that

I always do that

Picking up on facial expressions means you can figure out what someone’s feeling just by looking at their face.

Do you get what different nonverbal gestures mean?

I never do that

I always do that

This is all about getting what people are saying with their body language, not just their words.

Are you good at picking up on and understanding what someone's posture is saying?

I never do that

I always do that

Reading someone's posture means being able to pick up on and get what someone's body position and alignment are saying, without them having to use words.

Do you pick up on tone when people talk, noticing the little differences in how they say things?

I never do that

I always do that

Picking up on tone means you can catch the little changes in someone’s voice and pitch to figure out how they're feeling.

Do you keep good eye contact when you talk to people?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping good eye contact means looking someone in the eyes without making it weird.

Do you really pay attention when people talk to you?

I never do that

I always do that

Really listening up means you’re actually paying attention and getting what people are saying.

Do you actually take the time to get to know the person you're talking to, like their background, what they like, and how they like to chat?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting to know who you're talking to means understanding where they're coming from, what they like, and how they like to communicate.

Do you actually care about what the other person wants to talk about or what they're worried about?

I never do that

I always do that

Being curious means you really get involved with someone by actually wanting to understand them and connect with them.

Do you find out what's important and what's going on before you jump into a conversation?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting what's going on means you really get the situation and the background when someone talks.

Do you notice what's going on around you and change how you talk if you need to?

I never do that

I always do that

Being aware of what's happening around you means you notice your environment and the people nearby.

Do you dress right for different occasions and work settings?

I never do that

I always do that

Dressing right means wearing clothes that fit the situation you're in.

Do you keep up with good personal hygiene, making sure you look clean and well-groomed?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping up with good hygiene means making sure folks stick to their personal cleanliness and grooming habits.

Do you show the real you, reflecting your personality and values?

I never do that

I always do that

Showing the real you means letting your unique self shine through your personal style.

Do you keep good posture, showing confidence and professionalism?

I never do that

I always do that

Posture's about how you hold and position your body.

Do you make awesome stuff in your visual communication?

I never do that

I always do that

Making cool stuff means putting together eye-catching and convincing content that really gets the message across.

Do you use graphics to make your visual communication better?

I never do that

I always do that

Using graphic stuff means using visuals like pics, drawings, and charts to get info across.

Do you use colors well to make visuals pop?

I never do that

I always do that

Using colors means deliberately applying different shades, hues, and tones to back up a message.

Do you use a clear layout when you’re sharing visuals?

I never do that

I always do that

Using a clear layout means setting things up so people can easily get what’s going on and find their way around the info you’re showing.

Do you lay out the content of your presentations in a clear and organized way?

I never do that

I always do that

Laying out content means putting info together in a way that makes sense and flows well.

Do you grab and involve your audience during presentations?

I never do that

I always do that

Grabbing your audience's attention means catching someone's eye, keeping them interested, and getting them involved.

Do you get your point across clearly and in a way that convinces people?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting your message across means you get your point across in a way that's clear and gets the job done.

Do you handle questions from the audience well during presentations?

I never do that

I always do that

Dealing with questions means you're able to answer questions.

Do you lay out your content when giving a talk?

I never do that

I always do that

Laying out content means organizing the info in a way that makes sense and flows well.

Do you get the crowd involved when you're speaking in public?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting the crowd involved means catching someone's attention and keeping them hooked.

Do you get your point across clearly when you're talking in front of people?

I never do that

I always do that

Getting your message across clearly means you get your ideas and thoughts out there in a way that's easy to get and understand.

Do you speak up when you're giving a public speech?

I never do that

I always do that

Voice projection is all about being able to talk loud and clear.

Do you keep folks hooked when you're talking in public?

I never do that

I always do that

Keeping folks hooked means you hold your audience's attention.

Do you always get your point across clearly when you write?

I never do that

I always do that

Being clear in written communication means making sure folks can easily get what you're trying to say.

Do you set up and organize your content so your ideas flow logically?

I never do that

I always do that

Organization in written communication is all about how you set up and structure your content.

Do you use good grammar and spelling?

I never do that

I always do that

Grammar and spelling are all about the rules for using language the right way.

Do you use the right tone and style, keeping in mind why you're doing it and who it's for?

I never do that

I always do that

Tone and style are all about tweaking how you present stuff to fit what your audience likes.

Do you put out your stuff only after checking and fixing mistakes?

I never do that

I always do that

Proofreading's all about checking and fixing mistakes.

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Communication is the heart and soul of every relationship, but most of us only see our side of the story. Regular self-assessment tests can’t really show you how your words and actions affect the people around you. We all have blind spots—habits or patterns we don’t notice—that can quietly mess with trust, connection, and harmony in our relationships. Just relying on your own view can leave you stuck, missing out on the deeper understanding you need to really grow.

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